But seriously, there is a huge grey area between pure and holy virgin and immoral Godless slut that MOST women fall in to. Just because you don’t abide by these strict Christian morals doesn’t mean that you have no morals at all. I am growing very tired of this Madonna/Whore complex being bestowed upon girls these days. It’s damaging. The church AND secular society are contributing to these extreme views that girls have about how to conduct themselves sexually. You are a part of the problem, just fyi.