I have been thinking about this distinction over the past few days, and it seems to me that the real distinction here is that one is an end, or goal, and one is a byproduct. The Wild Woman directly seeks to captivate as an end in itself. She desires to bring people to herself. The Wise Woman becomes captivating because of the work of God in her life and her heart that is being conformed to the image of the Son. The fact that she becomes captivating is not something that she strives for, but is something she becomes as she strives for righteous obedience. Thoughts?